Divorce Isn’t a Failure!

I know that you are a strong and resilient person and going through a divorce takes courage, sure it’s not an easy thing to do. But you did it, and that shows just how strong you are. You may not feel it now, but you will get through this, and you will come out from the other side stronger and wiser. As the humans say… There’s light at the end of the tunnel.

Take some time to take care of yourself. This could mean different things for you my friend, but focusing on your physical, mental, and emotional well-being is essential. Reach out to your support system, whether it’s friends, family, or a therapist. As for me, I’m always a call away and when I call, decide to pick my call, because I am just calling to tell you my random jazz about a taxi guy or even a boda guy that gave me k.b on a ride. So that said… Surround yourself with people who love and care for you, and don’t be afraid to lean on them. I know you have few of these… But utilize them. They will be happy you did.

Remember that divorce is not a failure. Not all! Sometimes, despite our best efforts, relationships don’t work out. It’s important to learn from this experience and to take what you’ve learned into your next relationship, whether that’s with someone new or with yourself. You did what you could. You fought for that marriage. God won the battle for you. He saw his child and said, “no more my child, let it go.” So be happy it happened. Everything happens for a reason.

Above all, be kind to yourself and remember healing takes time, and it’s important to be patient and gentle with yourself during this process. Know that you are loved and valued, and that this experience does not define you. Above all.. Always pray, we are praying for you. Go rock the new YOU.

TUHAME❤️